To quote a wonderful woman
"I still hurt and grieve just like any other birthmother. I hurt when I see him and have to say goodbye. I hurt on his birthday and through out the year because I am not the one preparing his birthday cake, filling his stocking, etc. I hurt when I hear him call someone else mother. I hurt when I see the close relationship between him and his sister. I hurt that I do not know all his likes, dislikes, and personality characteristics as I do with the son I parent. "
My friend Coley wrote this blog, and I HAD to link it. IT was so beautiful written. Although bitter-sweet, it is the truth. And i dont think anyone else could have writen it better. Everyone tells me how insightful my blog has been for them. But her blog... IT says what I have been wanting to say all along. Open Adoption = No Pain
2006-12-20 05:13:06 GMT
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