Help need not apply... 12-05-06

Help need not apply...
i recently had a conversation with someone, that really irritated me.This person, we will call her... umm, "Lee", gave her child up for adoption some years ago. She always talks about how she misses her child, and how she will never see her child, and how the aParents took the child from her, and after age 6 never kept contact.She was very verbal about her loss, and how it hurts so bad... but even after offering help, it seems like it just got worse and worse. As if, she didnt want help, she just wanted attention.I remember saying something about finding out recently, that my sons parents read my blog *Waves Hi*, and she asked me, "Donsent that feel al ittle intrusive?" Absolutly NOT. I think its wonderful. These two women have to be the most understanding women i have ever met. But, there are times, when i feel like its too much to keep saying over and over agan how i feel. And there are some things i just like to write about, or things i want everyone to know...
Point it, i write in this blog, about how my adoption is going, and that adoption includes them! I dont think it is intrusive, i think it is wonderful that they care enough to read it once in a while. It shows that they are interested, and care about ho wi dealing with things emotionally.
Anyways, the whole point of this blog is.. If you need or want help, ask for it, but if all your looking for is some attention, then please find it elsewhere! There are others who need to speak about how they are feeling, and your lies and stopries are taking away from their time!
2006-12-05 17:28:43 GMT